Part 4: Power Plays

Sometimes, friction is not accidental. There are people who use specific tactics —consciously or unconsciously— to destabilize you. This section is your manual for verbal self-defense.

We will analyze and neutralize:

• Systematic interruption.
• The disqualifying joke (the “I was only joking”).
• Procrastination and lack of commitment.
• Unsolicited physical contact (“touching without permission”).
• The Teacher-Pupil dynamic (when they explain the obvious to you).
• The Waiting Game (the use of waiting as control).

The goal is not to counterattack, but to deactivate the play and return the interaction to a plane of mutual respect.